But, it can be so much work to get to that point, and you need to have more beneficial astrology going on in the composite chart and in synastry. The potential though can be very high, and this can be a transformative relationship that results in the two of you as like a powerhouse together. The identity of the relationship itself may be of too much or too little importance, and it may be a little all over the place at times. When the Sun is anaretic, there may be too much attention paid to that area to the detriment of the rest of the chart, or there may be so little attention paid to it that it's severely lacking in the relationship. The composite Sun is the identity of the relationship, and often shows where it's most focused. This can be most challenging with the composite Sun, Moon, or Venus at the anaretic degree. It can show an area where the two of you overplay the energy and it's too much, or underplay the energy and it gets ignored. When one of the composite planets is anaretic, this may be a challenging position in the relationship.
